FAQs
Frequently Asked Questions
Participants & Parents
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No. Connect 12 removes dating pressure entirely. There’s no pairing off, no one‑on‑one situations, and no dating within your cohort during the 12‑week program. The goal is to build friendships first and expand each person’s social world in a safe, healthy way.
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It ensures emotional safety, keeps the group dynamic relaxed, and preserves trust. If two people are interested, they can talk to leaders and revisit that after the program ends.
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That’s normal! During the 12 weeks, simply keep everything friendship‑based and group‑based. After the program, you’re free to pursue a relationship—often with greater clarity and a stronger foundation.
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Local hosts typically serve 20–35 (some groups may set a narrower band for fit). Check the Join a Group page for your area’s details.
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Connect 12 is values‑forward and welcomes anyone who respects the group’s culture and agreements. Individual cohorts may be hosted by churches or community organizations—see your local cohort description.
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3–4 hours of shared, group‑based activities: a meal or snack, a rotating activity (games, outdoor time, service), and a short learning/discussion segment—always designed for groups of 3+.
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We look at age range, availability, location, and balance (6 men + 6 women). A brief interview helps ensure each participant is ready to contribute to a safe, respectful experience.
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Life happens. Please notify your leaders in advance. Missed weeks should be rare, as consistent presence is vital to group trust.
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Program fees (if any) are set locally to cover space, food, and materials. Scholarships may be available through hosts or sponsors.
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We set clear expectations up front: respectful conduct, no 1‑on‑1, no dating within the cohort, and minimum group size = 3 for small breakouts. Leaders are trained to support a welcoming, accountable environment.
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Yes. The structure is specifically designed to reduce pressure, help you participate comfortably, and build confidence over time—at your own pace.
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Often yes, depending on balance and space. Both applicants still complete the brief interview and agree to the same commitments.
Frequently Asked Questions
Hosts & Partners
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We provide onboarding, a Facilitator Guide, weekly agendas, activity plans, and access to support channels. Leaders model warmth, fairness, and respect for the guidelines.
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A living room, classroom, or community room works well. Kitchen access helps for meal nights. Outdoor options are a plus.
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Yes—many hosts run multiple cohorts (e.g., different age bands or weeknights). We’ll help you sequence and staff them.
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Leaders are trained in simple conflict resolution and can escalate to Connect 12 support if needed. Safety and dignity come first.
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We offer flexible pricing based on project type and complexity. After an initial conversation, we’ll provide a transparent quote with no hidden costs.
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Attendance, completion rates, participant feedback, friendships formed, and post‑program introductions/relationships outside the cohort. We also track new groups launched and leader development.
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